Listening and Communication is key to all relationships. One without the other make things hard for a couple to ever get on the same page and seek compromise. Understanding important communication techniques such as using "I" statements and refraining from using "YOU" statements which at times can make individuals shutdown and put up a "defense wall" and in most cases make things worst, usually are helpful in resolving conflict. Holding yourself accountable for your actions can minimize confrontation and can be a catalysis for resolving problems in a peaceful manner.

Active listening is also key when trying to seek compromise. In most arguments people are not clearly listening to "understand", they are mainly listening to "reply" and generally are only interested in getting their point across. If you build a habit for listening to understand, you will be able to identify what is bothering the other individual and will be able to assess the problem better and come to agreement at a much faster pace.